Two anniversaries

On this day in 2013 I began to write this blog and the date was significant because it was dad’s birthday. Dad died in July 2014 aged 86 after a life lived to the full. Each year I look back at the photo albums and remember the man who educated himself (he left school aged 13), who was a devoted husband, loving father and incredibly dutiful son and a man who knew how to make the most of every day. There was fun and glamour in abundance. He played football, cricket, tennis, snooker and golf all to a high level (I have a box of his trophies as proof). He was an excellent bridge player and he and mum saw every notable play, show and film as well as spending many nights playing cards, wining and dining at The Colony Club and going to watch Chelsea at Stamford Bridge. Sometimes I wonder how he managed to fit in work – but he did (he was an accountant) and supported us as well as his parents. Extraordinary.

Humble beginnings in the tenements of the East End. The family visited the “bath house” once a week. There was never any money but they always had food and a roof over their heads. The photo was taken in a studio when dad was a baby
I never asked where this was or whose dog. Maybe this was taken when dad was evacuated during the war
Primary school in the east end. Dad second left in front row
Devoted dad and husband
We had some wonderful beach holidays
At my wedding – dad was only 46 and he had just 2 weeks to find the money to make me a wedding (that’s a story for another day)
Celebrating with champagne – they were blessed to celebrate 65 years of marriage but this is an earlier anniversary
A son who paid all his parents bills all his life and never let them “go without”
My glamorous parents at a “ladies night (ask dr Google)
They managed to look “a million dollars” whilst living in a tiny council flat and spending very little on clothes. I wish I had inherited their style!

There is so much more to say and hundreds of photographs many of them with his grandchildren (who he adored and who adored him) and with the two great grandchildren that he was blessed to see and know – the oldest remembers him well. What a life and what an example. Thank you dad.

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