A string bag brings back memories from 40 years ago

The last butternut squash was stored in the onion barn. We brought it to the house to make it into soup. It’s so enormous that I have only used a third of the squash so far.

Jeremy noticed that the bag in which we had hung the butternut squash came from a farm in Devon, very close to where we lived on a 2 acre small holding over forty years ago.

We lived three miles from the town of Crediton in a hamlet of four houses called Stoneshill
This was our cottage, The old forge – and it had a thatched roof
It was very hilly and we kept some Jacob sheep of the four horned variety (our sheep at The Gables are two horned animals)
I spent winter evenings spinning the Jacob fleeces and then knitting jumpers and cardigans for J and me and our baby son
New son under the ornamental cherry tree in our Devon garden
We also owned two goats, Penelope and Prudence, and we milked them twice a day and sold the milk to local folk who came to buy from our door
Our cat, Muffin, was in charge of the dog and kept her (and us) in line. She would accompany us on walks and she was definitely not a lap cat (unlike Mabel). I respected her and also adored her.

A string bag brought back many happy memories.

The “little lady” has left us

That’s the name that mum gave to her neighbour in the Care Home when Dame Barbara Windsor moved there in July. Our family had crossed paths with her before.

My brother and I grew up on a diet of cowboy movies and also saucy “Carry On” films with their quintessential British humour of double entendres, nods and winks. Seaside postcard humour transposed to the big screen. Barbara Windsor was one of the stars and, dare I say, we all loved her.

Carry on Doctor 1968

When my children were at primary school we were eating in a restaurant with my parents and a foreign visitor. Barbara Windsor was at a nearby table and the children (at our instigation) went to talk with her. She was lovely to them, although they probably didn’t really know who she was. That all changed when she joined the cast of the soap opera, East Enders, playing the landlady of the Queen Vic. In the serial one of Jeremy’s clients, Daniella Westbrook, played Sam Mitchell the daughter of landlady Peggy Mitchell (Dame Barbara). One day Jeremy had to go and visit his client on the set of the “soap” in Borehamwood.

He asked if he could bring his children and their cousins to the studios and it was agreed. The teenagers wanted to meet the main characters and Jeremy was keen to meet the blonde Barbara. She was gracious and friendly and gave Jeremy a signed photograph that sat on our mantelpiece in London for many years. Dame Barbara was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2014 and left East Enders, living quietly with her third husband and helping to publicise the need for help with research and care for her progressive disease. In July Barbara Windsor became a resident in the same Care Home as mum. Mum said she always looked lovely and was tiny (she was only four foot ten inches tall). Mum called her, “the little lady”. I had to tell mum, this morning, that the “little lady” had passed away. Mum was sad and told me that she hadn’t seen her in the lounge in recent weeks. “But when I saw her”, mum said, “she always spoke to me and said “hello darling”!”. As Daniella said to the press, “today we lost a legend, a national treasure and I lost a friend”.

Preparing for poultry “lockdown” on Monday

An outbreak of Avian flu has led Defra (Department of Environment, Food and Rural Affairs) to order that all poultry and turkeys must be kept under cover until further notice. We have moved all the large birds into the green poly tunnel in the chicken run.

The Silkies and the bantams are living in the old quail barn. All seems fine except that the grey Bantam cockerel and one of the Silkie cockerels are fighting and both are a bit “bloody” this morning.

They also have perches and two nesting houses and plenty of space

As the sun begins to go down the Women and Equalities Committee is transmitting live from the Houses of Parliament and……

Daughter, Professor Rosa Freedman, is one of the witnesses giving evidence to the Committee

The gender recognition certificate review and transgender issues have become toxic areas of debate with “no platforming of academics” who dare to raise their voices or even ask for a civilised discussion on these issues. I rushed home from “open air” Tai Chi at the Riverside Park in order to listen to the live streaming from Parliament.

All ages – all stages and a surprise for mum

It was a foggy, early morning trip down to London but it was good to see mum looking well

I have to remind mum to put the phone to hear so that we can hear each other as we gaze through her bedroom window.

Then, a surprise for mum, two of her great grandchildren arrived. School was closed but not because of Covid but due to a heating failure. Mum was thrilled to see them.

Waving through the window – as good as it gets for now

The other great grandson shared his latest idea on WhatsApp

Who could argue with that!

My lovely niece, one of mum’s four grown up grandchildren, is performing in a Covid secure, Soho burlesque show tonight. She goes by the name of Lulu LaRouge!

Interesting. I won’t be attending – this time!