Cat versus dog

Nigel managed to sneak onto grandson’s bed this evening (his very favourite place in the world). There he was surrounded by several soft toys

He particularly likes the large toy dog
The dog never fights back

The afternoon was spent driving to and from London with a precious hour with mum

Mum and I agreed that she gets an Olympic medal for worrying. Apparently she thought I must have been in an accident as she was expecting me at lunchtime. Bless. According to J I am already in training for a gold medal in worrying. It must be a genetic trait.

Mum is taking good care of Sally. One of her friends in the lounge has a knitted dog called Henry (I prefer Sally!)

Back at the Gables just two goslings remain – J sold another three this morning

In the chicken run two hens are sitting on a further 6 goose eggs and another hen is sitting on 8 hen eggs. All due to hatch at the weekend. Call the midwife!

Bittersweet morning and memories

I drove into St Neots this morning to join with the U3A writing group. The Priory Centre has a terrace where we could buy a coffee and sit by the river, undisturbed, and read our pieces to each other.

The topic this week was a short paragraph revealing something about ourselves that the group didn’t know. Nothing too salacious. I read mine and H, sitting next to me, then read hers. The big reveal was that she had appeared in two TV adverts in the 1970’s when she was training at the Ballet Rambert.

My ears pricked up. She finished reading and others commented. Then I asked her, “did you know my friend Malko? She trained at Rambert.”

“She was in the year above me.” H looked amazed. I told her that Malko had left dancing (most dancers never “make it”) and then she and I trained at physio school together. Later Malko went back to live near her family in the Netherlands and died just before her 50th birthday. J and I went to visit her shortly before she became bed bound and blind from her cruel disease.

It was my lovely friend Malko who insisted I bought sensible, flat shoes when I was pregnant with my first child and both my children knew her, visited her in Holland and liked her.

She was forthright in the way that Dutch people are and I always had great arguments and discussions with her both in person and by letter. Her sister, who lives in Devon, commissioned a sculpture of Malko dancing and when I saw it a few years ago (just as now) I sat and cried. I miss her.