In between sunrise and sunset I had a good visit with mum. Some old friends want to visit her and asked for her permission. She agreed and would love to see them. I had many greetings for her and she was pleased that I keep in touch with her cousins and friends. As always we had some laughs and discussed the family. Then it was lunchtime and I got on the road once more. I’ve just put the animals away for the night and fed the geese. They’re such a noisy bunch. Click below
Last week our two armchairs were professionally cleaned. 8 years of muddy paws and sticky fingers of grandchildren and our own hard use had taken their toll on the fabric. Now that they are clean I have covered them in cotton throws and the cats are very comfortable with the new arrangements!
I was privileged to be part of the village Remembrance Service in the County Park this morning. I sang a memorial prayer in Hebrew and read the prayer in English.
During the silent contemplation I thought, as always, of my grandpa Sam who survived the hell of the Battle of the Somme.
Grandpa with my dad on his knee
I’ve no doubt that grandpa was damaged by his wartime experiences. He told my brother about the rats that ran over the soldiers as they slept in the muddy trenches. Not for those soldiers the label PTSD or any counselling. They came home and tried to put their experiences away in a largely unopened box.
Grandpa working as a clerk in later life. He was uneducated but had a good brain but he never used this in a tangible way. He bet a small amount on the horses every day, smoked Senior Service cigarettes and occasionally made up advertising slogans for PG Tips which they never used.
Grandpa had one failed marriage with a daughter he never saw and who died young, then a second unhappy marriage with grandma Katy. Sam at least came home from the Great War. Katy’s first love sent her embroidered postcards from “somewhere in France” but never returned. That Great War blighted so many lives and all for what?
Feeding a chick Riding hay bales and taking them to the goats Saying hi to WillowPretty RuthMoving the sheep Stroking Nigel Watching Nigel devour a mouse
It is 8 years today since I began blogging from The Gables. It was a steep learning curve and I’m still learning.
Photos below from the first blog book that I made. I make books out of my blogs to keep as picture diaries of life here at The GablesThe first jam from the first plum harvest
The second anniversary is that today would have been dad’s 94th birthday. He passed away aged 86 but lived a full and happy life right up to his very last day. He was a wonderful son, husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather. He adored children as you can see from the photographs.
Dad with his mother. He was an only child and his parents relied on him and he never let them down With a granddaughter And with a great granddaughter